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You can start off by organising Peter O’Neill to come to your work place, office, school or venue for a 1-2 hour inspirational masterclass on The Gift of Emotional Intelligence. Be amazed that in only 1-2 short hours, with the support of a book and chart to take home, everyone can quick-start using this most helpful system both personally and professionally.

Course Content - Using the Tools4Life chart for:

  • SHOWING UP (attitude, energy levels, mindset, motivation, intention)

The concept of showing up.  How are you showing up in each of the important areas of your life?

 

  • THE 'CHECK-IN' - OUR MAIN FOCUS!

The concept of regular ‘check-ins’.  How often do you ‘check-in’ to make sure you’re showing up the way you want to?  Do you have a structured or formal and consistent process that you use?

  • Daily check-in for yourself

  • Regular check-ins with your staff

  • Check-in with your partner at home

  • Check-in with your kids

  • Check-in with your friends and peers

  • UNDERSTANDING HOW EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE WORKS

THE STRUCTURE OF EMOTIONS AND HOW THEY AFFECT PERFORMANCE

Emotions get STUCK, SPREAD, DRAG and LINGER

 

E.g.

 a) I’m frustrated at work.

b) I’m frustrated all over the place now.

c) I’m a frustrated person.

V

a) Yay! I had a success at work today!

b) I’m seeing success in other areas now too!

c) I’m a successful person.

 

  • “I CAN’T HELP HOW I FEEL”  - Yes you can - FLIPPING EMOTIONS & TURNING FEELINGS AROUND

 

 

  • YOU CAN’T HELP PEOPLE WHO HAVE THEIR WALLS UP

Understanding self sabotaging behaviours and defensive blocks.  Having walls up is exactly like a road block!  Drop the walls, clear the blocks and driving results is easy again. 

  • KEEPING PERCEPTIONS POSITIVE V NEGATIVE PRESUMPTIONS

Positive perceptions create your positive potential reality. 

E.g. “My perception of work is that I’m happy, successful and valued.  I love coming into work and often have surprise opportunities.  Clients and sales come easy to me.”

Negative presumptions create judgements, limitations and fears to be made manifest. 

E.g. “I don’t want this, this always happens, they are always like this, they’ll probably be …. see, I was right.”

 

  • NEUTRALISING STRESS TRIGGERS

Triggers cause instant physical, mental and emotional reactions.  Triggers come from traumas and experiences of the past and they can pack a punch!    Somebody says something, something happens and your emotions become triggered. 

 

· How long does a trigger last? 

· How long does it take to get over a trigger?

· How do you stop the triggering?

· How do you flip triggers into positives?

  

  • HOW EMOTIONS AFFECT THE BODY - STRESS AFFECTS YOUR HEALTH & PERFORMANCE

Think of a lemon for a few seconds and your mouth will produce saliva. 

If you stay ‘worried sick’, you’ll soon get an ulcer.

You can block out feeling hungry simply by focusing on something else, but your body is still hungry.  We block emotions out and in the same way, they still affect our body.  Emotions can affect your body’s performance in many ways. 

E.g. Pain, Fatigue, Sickness and Injury Recovery.

 

A TOOLS4LIFE MASTERCLASS CAN CHANGE YOUR LIFE!

L.I.F.E. - Logic, Intelligence, Feelings, Emotions

RATES (2021)

1 or 2 hour Masterclass - The Gift of Emotional Intelligence (as above)

A dynamic, powerful and inspiring presentation on the Tools4Life system. Participants gain a whole new level of awareness and insight into the world of Emotional Intelligence, learning a practical and step by step process to realise, heal and

release negative feelings, and make the switch to more helpful positive ones. The old saying of “I cant help how I feel” is

certainly no longer a valid one with Tools4Life.

This presentation fits very well with any company’s Mental Health or Emotional Fitness Program

$500 or $800 plus $25 per person for a Tools4Life book and chart.

 

4 hour Seminar Version

This is the minimum time required to thoroughly present the Tools4Life system in its entirety, explaining the many ways to use and integrate it into different aspects of life.   There is also a focus on goal setting with Emotional Drivers.

 

Extra areas included:​

  • Toxic behaviours to be mindful of

  • How to live to values 

  • How to build a healthy self-esteem.

 $1200 plus $25 per person for a Tools4Life book and chart

 

6-8 hour Workshop Version

In this full day workshop, there is ample time for participants to journal, share, express and practice.

 

As well as more time for demonstrations, questions and discussions. Participants also learn ways to use the system to help children, family and friends at home. A wall poster also comes with this course.  All relationships thrive on conscious communication. 

 

This 6-8 hour workshop can be held over either one or two days.

If presented over one day - $1500 plus $25 per person for a Tool4Life book and chart

If presented over two days - $2200 plus $25 per person for a Tools4Life book and chart

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